To all the women in my life, and every other besides, I hope you had a beautiful day, and that tomorrow will be just as good. Unfortunately, I know that for a lot of people, equality is a distant dream, and that low-level (or not so low, really) day-to-day misogyny is very real. From cat-calling to “jokes” and snide comments, to hearing colleagues talking about not going for a run in the dark, for every man that talks over you or dismisses your questions and concerns just because you have a hysterical set of genitals, there is still a lot to be done.
The irony of talking about it on a blog that is 99% about hitting women is not lost on me, but I hope I make it clear that, to me, spanking, as a fetish, has nothing to do with belittling women. In fact, I hope there is empowerment in choosing when and by whom to be dominated, when to let go and trust another person. I hope also that the knowledge that the game ends when (if) the spankee says so shows who’s really in control 😉
On this day like on any other, I wish that all women around the world got what they deserved one day. And yes, some of you deserve a good spanking. You know who you are!
With love, always,
-Kal